thank you and you know, I thought several times about the "shackles" wording.
It seemed insulting when it was completely opposite of my intention. It was closer to my meaning that people who do not have such disorders tend to have social parameters already built in, almost autonomic. Where as myself, I have to have these little rules at the forefront of my brain like little post it notes to remind me that I cannot call talk to a perfect stranger in a grocery store about how fascinating intestines are or the structural difficulties in building a house shaped like an elephant.
Often enough I forget. :)